Usually, when I get a message on OKCupid like the one below, I just ignore. I pretty much ignore everybody who writes me, unless it seems like there’s a fraction of a chance that they might not suck. Which turns out to be 1/2 of .00001 percent of people who write me.
My ignoring, by the way, isn’t a form of snobbery, like “ooh, I’m soooo much better.” It’s more like I don’t want to provoke men to anger by saying no. Men do not take rejection well, I’ve found. Better to just let them think I just didn’t get their message, or am in the hospital undergoing a kidney transplant.
Lately, however, I’ve been feeling less afraid of saying no or passing. And so, I’m writing back to the guys who are particularly irksome, or clueless. My responses vary according to the flavor of the message, and arrogance of the person writing.
Side note: I sometimes wonder if the source of all misogyny in the world is the result of just one really pissed off dude from ancient history, who got rejected by a lady, and managed to convince his buddies, —because he was also a good convincer of people—that women are the root of all evil. And those buddies, convinced their buddies. Fast forward to the internet, MRA assholes, Okcupid dicks, and gamer gate.